What would you do???

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by TitanWilly, Aug 11, 2013.

  1. Scarecrow

    Scarecrow CEO of PPO

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    I just know how shitty people are
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  2. Titandude

    Titandude Stand Up Guy!

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    If you think you are close enough as a couple to propose, and yet she still has a sexual affair on you, you need to save yourself some future pain and let her go NOW! There are more fish in the sea that will make a better life partner. That is unless you are cool with an OPEN marriage.
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  3. TitanWilly

    TitanWilly Camp Fodder

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    Yes, sadly Scarecrow I wish it were a porn and I feel pretty ridiculous to even post this on a, of all places, Titans fan board. Was pretty drunk last night and said **** it! With the intensity of a lot of you especially to a couple individuals here, I figured this would the perfect spot to hear some hard core feed back. I'm not that crazy or psycho to make something like that up and put it out there like this, but then again I guess I maybe am since I did.

    Yeah, this sucks.
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  4. Scarecrow

    Scarecrow CEO of PPO

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    Well that sucks and I am sorry, but the hard honest truth is move on without her.
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  5. Tennessy XO

    Tennessy XO @TennessyXO

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    Cut all contact.

    Delete number.

    Delete Facebook.

    Avoid mutual friends.

    Go out and have fun.
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  6. UrbanLegend3

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    Hey Titanwilly for what it's worth I'd definitely stay. Having a girl who is into girls is awesome. My only concern would be her deciding she's a full out lesbian but other than that enjoy it. You'll get a piece of both pies and it'll make it less likely she hooks up with dudes since she's already getting her kicks with girls. Put it like this, you'll never get in trouble for checking out other girls cause she's doing the same thing. Sorry if I seem to be taking this lightly but I've been in serious relationships with girls in a similar situation and it can be great. It's all about perspective and if you can trade a little ego for a lot of fun. Hope it helps.
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  7. Msut10

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    That is rough. The first step would be to talk about it and see where that goes. But Its hard to completely believe her story. I think like others have said, its a half truth. So unless you really 100% believe her, you need to leave.
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  8. UrbanLegend3

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    Not hard to believe for me. I'm willing to bet it's true. Things like this happen all the time these days not just in porn. Women are much more likely than men to explore their sexuality, makes sense they'd be more likely to do it with each other.
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  9. The Playmaker

    The Playmaker pineapple pizza party

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    I'm really surprised no one has recommended he should join in next time. Come on guys.
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  10. JR1980

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    Well, if what you say is true, I just want to say I am sorry to hear about this Titan Willy. Newby to the forum and apparently a crappy week. I won't write some longwinded dear Abby, but if I were you, I would walk away now....As hard as it is. i don't believe this girl for a second, and I have been in this type of situation in the past. Lying about being at her sick dad's, a girl, etc...bs...and she is lying. Keep your chin up bro and do YOU starting now!
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