No. Well, that's just personal experience. I've never been good or close friends with a girl for longer than around 2 years, without something coming up. I also had a girl leave me for someone that was just a "friend". You've got some good advice here. Maybe tone it down some. Make efforts for the guy friends to hang with the guy, and see how you are around the guys. Communication is the biggest thing I guess. I also wonder "you need to get rid of these phone friends"... Do you think maybe he just wants more of your attention when you are both at home, instead of you being on the phone with some other dudes? I dunno if that's the correct context from your orig.post.