Dear Gunny, I did a poll of my friends who actually hang out with me and they said that i'm spoiled, but not materialistic. They all said that I don't pursue material things at the expense of family and friends. I'm generous to a fault. I let the people in my group put their drinks on my tab when we're at the bar. When it's a bunch of us, I usually drive. I love to give family really good gifts. I gave my sister a gift that I wanted to keep for myself, but my Mom made me give it. As a friend said, "you wouldn't be loved by those who love you if you had a horrible trait like materialism." Ginny, i'm sure you will continue to think what you will about me. However, those that know me, don't think so. So I guess what I mean is, k.m.b.a!