Well I used to go out and party A LOT. I'm about to be 23 and I quit drinking because I was verging on becoming an alcoholic, so there's that. But this kind of stuff? You think normal 20 year olds go out and do this stuff all the time? No. They don't. They party and do crazy stuff, but this? Nah. This is not normal. I feel sorry for you if you think it is. There's a difference between partying and going out and being a complete idiot like this. But yep. You nailed it... just because I'm saying he shouldn't be trashing hotel rooms, pulling fire alarms, snorting cocaine, etc means that I don't think he should be allowed to have fun. You're making perfect sense there, dude. The fact that he has all this money as resorts to doing this stuff is actually more sad. This is what I'd do if I was a bum with no friends, no job, no life, and little money.