Fellas, come in, sit down, discuss....

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by The Mrs, Apr 21, 2009.

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  1. cajuntitan

    cajuntitan 26.2ers can do it for hrs

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    I've been married for 10 years and have 2 kids. I also have what I would call a bunch of friends. Now my close friends, you know the ones you can seriously talk to and not feel like they aren't judging you equals about 10. Of those 10, 8 are girls, most of them I would say are out of my leauge. My wife knows every one of them and and isn't particullarly good friends with any of them herself. She doesn't have a problem in the world with me hanging out with them, at all. In fact I called her the other day and told her that for lunch I was debating on going to the gym or going to lunch with Dana and Chrystal and she told me I should take a day off and go to lunch. I guess what I'm trying to say is that if you are open about your friends and what you are doing I don't see why there would be a problem with you hanging with whoever you like to hang out with. Honestly, why should He be scared of the friends that he knows about. If you have friends that you don't talk about around him, those are the ones he should be scared of.
     
  2. Deuce Wayne

    Deuce Wayne NOW Y'ALL GET THE MESSICH?!

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    I do like Hope's style. We've got a new kid with flare now though in Nate.
     
  3. Sappersis

    Sappersis "custom user title here"

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    Start hanging out with a whole bunch of women... he'll get annoyed at all the "woman" crap and ask you to bring the men friends back. JK

    I understand where you are coming from. I've got a couple of really close female friends, but I can't handle all the drama that comes from a big group of girls. I grew up with an older brother who let me tag along and I much prefer the company of guys over girls.

    I'd be open and honest with your man and explain to him that nothing is going on with the guys. Ask him exactly what part of your having male friends makes him uncomfortable. If its the way you talk with them or the way they look at you etc. There is nothing wrong with toning things down a bit... but I, personally, would be really upset if he was asking you to give them up completely. Thats just not okay in my book. I honestly think a little bit of discussion will cut to the chase and help you come up with a solution that solution you both can live with.

    Seriously... BEN? I don't see it at all.
     
  4. Hoffa

    Hoffa Freak you you freakin' freak

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    I don't know, hard to say without knowing the baggage both of you carry, and his side of the story as well...
     
  5. The Mrs

    The Mrs Crush on Casey Starbucks!

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    HIS story?:irked: Aren't all of you supposed to be on my side?

    Sapper, how are you not seeing the sexiness of Ben? He's cute, he's like 6'5" and thicker than a pork chop. He's a cute bear. Now, the downside to Ben is that after he retires, he's going to sit around drinking beer and turn into Chubby Huggs.:ha:
     
  6. The Mrs

    The Mrs Crush on Casey Starbucks!

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    By the by Sapper, I have a girl crush on you. Do you drink wine?
     
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  7. Deuce Wayne

    Deuce Wayne NOW Y'ALL GET THE MESSICH?!

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    He's already half there while playing. lol
     
  8. Hoffa

    Hoffa Freak you you freakin' freak

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  9. Gunny

    Gunny Shoutbox Fuhrer

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    And do either of you own a webcam?
     
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  10. Blazing Arrow

    Blazing Arrow The 12th man

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    Cheap wine ...
     
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